The Mystery With Men

Guys are labeled as simple creatures.  They are black and white.  They are supposed to be easy to figure out.  So why is it so hard for me to figure them out!?  I had a lovely couple of dates with a guy who seemed to have everything in common with me and then it got weird.  I got an email a week ago stating that he was really busy but really wanted to get together this week.  So I emailed him back saying that he seemed pretty busy, so whatever worked best for him... ya, no call.  Huh?  What happened?  Did I miss something?  Again, men are supposed to be simple creatures... yet this doesn't seem too simple.  I don't get it.  Honestly, if anyone has an answer, I would love to hear it.  :)  I think that Dave Barry says it best~ Guys are simple... women are not simple and they always assume that men must be just as complicated as they are, only way more mysterious. The whole point is guys are not thinking much. They are just what they appear to be. Tragically.”

Ha!  I guess we just assume so much!  But what else can we do?  The mystery continues...

What I've learned about me

I have decided that when a guy likes me, I do not like him.

When I like a guy, he does not like me.

So where is the happy medium?  After some 14 odd years of dating... this is what I have discovered.  You would think after all that time, I would have figured it all out, but no.  Ah, so much to learn.

Mr. Right....I know you are out there somewhere.